"Marriage phobia" is a representative modern social psychological disease. The negative publicity of public opinion on marriage life is one of the causes of marriage phobia. The fear of plain life after marriage and the fear of responsibility after marriage are the most key factors for them to fear entering the palace of marriage. According to incomplete statistics, 90% of prospective newlyweds suffer from premarital phobia. "
Huang ronger has been in a restless mood in recent days. He searched the Internet for symptoms. When he saw the word "fear of marriage", he found a bosom friend, as if he understood what he was thinking.
Fear of marriage? Probably. I want to be with Ouyang Ruihang, but I don''t want to get married.
At the thought that the days to come would be full of daily necessities, and that she would have another child with Ouyang Ruihang, she felt very uncomfortable.
Thinking of this, Huang ronger had an idea and came to the little white house to find Yu mu''an.
In the living room of the little white house, Yu mu''an is playing with his little sister and Xiao Chen.
Huang rong''er stood at the door and looked at her thoughtfully. Xiao Chen found Huang rong''er and pointed to her, "ah, ah..."
Yu mu''an looked down where Feng Jingchen pointed, saw Huang rong''er and said with a smile, "what are you doing standing at the door? Come on in! I was just thinking you should be here soon. "
"Just arrived." Huang ronger came to the living room, said hello to Xiaomei and Xiaochen respectively, and nestled on the sofa.
"What happened?" Yu mu''an let the two children play at the same time. He sat next to Huang rong''er and asked, "what''s on your mind? It''s rare! "
"Oh, cousin, I seem to be ill." Huang rong''er tooted his mouth, "have you heard of marriage phobia?"
"Marriage phobia? You? " Yu mu''an asked in surprise, "is it impossible? Don''t you always talk about letting Ouyang marry you? How can you fear marriage? "
Huang ronger grabbed the backrest and hugged it. He said angrily, "I don''t know! But I just don''t want to get married! My parents have always said, "get married after graduation and get married after graduation. The more they say, the less I want to get married."
Yu mu''an asked, "then you don''t want to be with Ouyang?"
"Yes! I want to be with him, but I don''t want to get married. " Huang rong''er looked at Yu mu''an and said coquettishly, "can we not get married?"
"Ah, well... It''s not impossible not to get married. Now there are many non marriage activists, but..." Yu mu''an was a little embarrassed. Huang ronger may not know, but she knows that Ouyang Ruihang is preparing to propose to Huang ronger recently. If Huang ronger jumps out ''I don''t want to''
"Cousin, what is it?" Huang ronger asked.
"It''s just this matter. You have to discuss it with Ouyang. What if he wants to get married? You can''t just think about yourself. " Yu mu''an said, "you and Ouyang are not easy together. If he wants to marry you, he wants to be responsible for you. He has a sense of responsibility. What''s more, you''re engaged. Marriage doesn''t come naturally? "
Huang rong''er tooted his mouth and didn''t speak.
Yu mu''an asked, "then why don''t you want to get married?"
Huang ronger said a lot, and Yu mu''an analyzed: "I almost know. First of all, you are evading responsibility. Your aunt and uncle take care of you too well. You are a young child, and you don''t want to get married and take responsibility. Secondly, you are in a transitional stage from a student to a social person. You haven''t adapted well. Finally, it''s your roommates who are fueling the flames. What they say is bad. Why didn''t you expect those white headed couples who share weal and woe? "
"But what kind of husband and wife can Ouyang and I become?" Huang ronger asked uncertainly.
"You ask me, who do I ask? You have to ask your own heart. You liked him from the beginning, finally caught up with him, and changed him. After so much experience, don''t you believe the feelings between you? " Yu mu''an said, "anyway, you''re going to graduate. You might as well go out by yourself. Ouyang used to accompany you. You can travel by yourself this time to see if it''s better to be alone or two. People say that travel is the best standard to test couples. You can compare it. "
Huang ronger was obviously tempted and was ready to move.
Because Feng Yan didn''t come back at noon, Huang ronger had lunch with Yu mu''an.
Before leaving, Huang rong''er was about to tell Yu mu''an about her pregnancy. Thinking about it, she shook her head again. I still want to be the first to share this good news with Ouyang, just wait... Come back from the trip!
A few days later, it was the day of Huang rong''er''s graduation ceremony.
Huang ronger''s graduation ceremony is simpler. He doesn''t have to make a speech. He can go straight after receiving his graduation certificate.
Before the graduation ceremony, Huang ronger was nervous and kept telling Ouyang Ruihang not to propose, otherwise she might run away directly.
Ouyang Ruihang wondered about Huang ronger''s attitude these days, but he couldn''t think of a reason. He just nodded and agreed to Huang ronger''s "request". After all, Leng Shaoqing had already done it at the graduation ceremony. Even if Huang ronger didn''t say it, he wouldn''t do it.
Apart from the proposal, Huang ronger was still full of expectations for graduation. He happily received his diploma, went back to see his roommates go their separate ways one by one, and couldn''t help crying.
"I''m going to Z city today to attend the film festival and the premiere of a film. Wait for me at home and come back in a few days, okay?"
Huang ronger was so happy to hear Ouyang Ruihang say so. He quickly nodded, "go." She was worried about not having a chance to go out for a walk by herself. Now was a good time.
Ouyang Ruihang was dissatisfied, "Gee, how did you promise so happily?"
Huang rong''er glanced, "otherwise? Crying to tell you not to go? I don''t want it! "
Ouyang Ruihang chuckled and pinched Huang ronger''s face. "Also, now our ronger have become independent and self-improvement women in the new era. They are no longer sticky kittens. In the future, the sticky ones will become me."
Huang rong''er smiled and couldn''t help holding Ouyang Ruihang''s face with his backhand and making a mess with him.
Ouyang Ruihang''s plane in the evening went to Z city with Feng Ruien and Meng Jiaren.
Feng Ruien also went to the film festival. Meng Jiaren, who had spent the summer vacation with the students, followed. The two were so sweet that Ouyang Ruihang pretended to sleep as soon as he got on the plane.
Ouyang Ruihang doesn''t mean not to take Huang ronger with him. It''s just that when he goes to Z City this time, he will know the progress of the proposal ceremony prepared by the next person. If necessary, he has to "rehearse". In order to maintain a sense of mystery and surprise, naturally, he can''t take Huang ronger with him.
But Ouyang didn''t expect that when he arrived at the airport, Huang ronger also set out from home and rushed to the railway station.